Girls dream about the perfect guy proposing to them long before they even know what love is. That puts a lot of pressure on guys who are about to ask their soulmate to spend the rest of their lives together. Not only the proposal can get rejected, but it also has to be perfect in every sense from the atmosphere to the proposal ring to the actual proposal speech. If you don't know how to genuinely say why and how you love your future wife, even the most beautiful wooden roses bouquets, romantic candlelight, and delicious dinner won't save the moment. That is why you should practice write your proposal speech and practice it before you bend your knee. Here are a few tips to make your speech flawless.
Talk About Your First Meeting
The best way to start your proposal speech is to talk about the first moment when you met your soon-to-be wife. Just relax and say what's on your mind: did you think that she was the most beautiful girl in your class (and the whole world)? Or maybe she said something that touched your soul deeply? Make sure to spotlight every small detail to let your soulmate know that you cared about her from the first second.
When Did You Fall in Love With Her?
Tell her about the moment when you realized that you love her for the first time. What did make you feel that way? Is it something she said? Was it her smile? Also, let her know that you were already envisioning her standing by the altar in a magical wedding dress with a beautiful wooden wedding bouquet in her hands. These stories will let her understand that you were serious from the get go and always wanted to start a family.
What Are Her Best Qualities?
Let your soon-to-be wife know how much you love her. But avoid talking in cliché phrases and try to personalize your speech so that she could easily relate. Talk about those small things that she does to make you laugh every day. Remind her how wonderful and strong she is. And let her know that you don't want to change a thing about her, but rather appreciate and accept her for what she is.
Don't Be Afraid to Show Emotions
Don't try to pretend that you are not stressed or emotional. On the contrary, accept your state and use it as an advantage. Once you get on your knee, all shaking and terrified, you show that you don't mind to be vulnerable in front of her. And you show that there is nothing in the world that matters to you more. If a girl doesn't say YES after that, nothing will change her mind.
Also, those tiny awkward moments will be fun to remember when you'll telling your love story to your grandchildren.
That said, even when you are completely terrified and stressed, try to remain confident. Try to envision your honeymoon and think about the fact that your future wife was probably picking the best wooden wedding flowers, photographers, and venues for the wedding for months now. So, if you practice your speech and tell her how you love her wholeheartedly, you should start thinking about where to find the money for the wedding.